Happy Holiday?

December 8, 2004

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Every now and then I get lost in a state of perpetual dissatisfaction. (“I’ll be happy when…”) I want to enjoy every moment that I can this Holiday season, but I find myself looking ahead more than being in the now.

 

So, I have a question for you. I’m sure there is a way to resolve what seems like a paradox for me. I am great at seeing, and eventually realizing possibilities. I think this gift has several components 1. I can see what could be 2. I can see what is currently missing 3. I can research and then evaluate and understand what resources etc need to be added to get from what is missing to what can be.

 

This is one of my main talents and figures into most things that I am good at. However, some of these skills seem to be opposite to what it takes to be happy in the moment. (I’m sure that that isn’t true, but right now I’m not seeing how it can all work together inside of me.) What seems opposite about being happy to me is 1. Seeing what is (Can you see what is and what can be at the same time, or do you have to flip back and forth. Hmmm…) 2. See what is currently right 3. Be grateful for what is currently right.

 

Of course, happiness is only one of my values and not necessarily my primary value. I get a lot of satisfaction from creating and improving things, so I’m not willing to give that up to be subjectively happy in the moment. And, I’m sure I don’t have to… so any ideas about how I can combine the skills of seeing into the future and enjoying the present? Before you answer, I want to be clear that I am happy every now and then. J I just want to learn the skill of really savoring and enjoying all the moments of my life.

 

Thank you!

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One Response to “Happy Holiday?”

  1. Laura Moncur Says:

    I’ve heard of happiness defined as working toward something you think is important. Your process matches that definition. I’ve even heard that it doesn’t matter whether you get to the goal or not, just that you are actively working on it.

    Recognizing all the beauty that life has to offer is something I’ve relegated to another time in my life. As long as I have breath, I’m going to work on something I think is important. It makes me a lot happier than stopping to smell the flowers. I’ll save flower smelling for the time when I can no longer kick butt.


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